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Here Is Some Advice: Love Your Spouse

September 30, 2015 by Patrick Leave a Comment

We are continuing our series on “Here is some advice…” It is all about the different advice I have received as we continue deputation. Today’s post will cover advice that I am given regularly. It is actually “Love your wife.” but to generalize I entitled this post, “Love your spouse” because I think it goes both ways.

“Without your spouse, you do not have a ministry.” Can God use a man who is single? Yes. Sure He can! But God’s design is that husband and wife work together in ministry. Aquila and Priscilla are a great example of this, but that is another post (one that we have touched on I might add, click here). If I lose my wife, I lose my ministry. Here are a few tidbits I’ve been given to make sure I “love my spouse…”

  • Spend time with your spouse. The ministry takes time. I remember when I first started working at my home church my Pastor told me, “The ministry is not a job that you can punch in and out on a time clock. It is always going.” In the process of ministry it is easy for everything else to take a “back seat”, including your family. Although there are times this is unavoidable, time should be made for your spouse.
  • Do ministry together. Our marriage is by no means perfect, but there is something we have always done. We have always done ministry together. I think it is because we never knew any different. We worked together in ministry before we were married. We have worked together in ministry throughout our marriage. When we had babies, they were just dragged along with us. We have worked together, and if may say so, any good thing that has happened in what I’ve done, Leslie was deeply involved in it. She truthfully makes me better. I can attest to this piece of advice, ministry should be done together.
  • Do things for your spouse. Pastors have told me the importance of taking care of my wife, of going beyond what is expected and doing special things for her. Her birthday and Christmas should not be the only times I give her gifts. Some have advised that she is the queen of our house and should be treated as such.
  • Talk to your spouse. Men have told me to tell my wife I love her and tell her often. I am encouraged to tell her how beautiful she is (and she is very beautiful!). She may know that I love her, but it doesn’t hurt for her to be verbally reminded of it regularly. Some have claimed that a lack of communication is one of the biggest problems in marriage. It is important to talk with your spouse.

There is so much more to this subject that I have been encouraged to put to practice. I remind you that this isn’t something I have come up with (although I fully agree with it), but advise I have been given by men of God as we have travelled on deputation. Here is some advice, love your spouse!

I have attached a photo that I took of Leslie last night. I must say I am a very blessed man. The truth is she is obviously gorgeous, but she is even more beautiful on the inside…

Leslie

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Advice, Argentina, Deputation, Missionary, Missions, Patrick Henry, World Evangelism

Quick Update: A Sunday in Ohio

September 25, 2015 by Patrick Leave a Comment

Both of our services this Sunday will be in Ohio. We start the morning off in Toledo at Faith Bible Baptist Church. From there we go to our evening service in New Philadelphia with Calvary Baptist Church. Each meeting is another opportunity to share what God has called us to do and is another opportunity to partner with churches to plant churches in Argentina!

Thank you for your constant prayers for us. We are seeing God move. Please continue to pray for us!

Serving Together,

Patrick, Leslie, Lily, Piper, and Ivy Henry

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Argentina, Deputation, Henry, Missions, Patrick, Quick Update

Quick Update: In Ashtabula

September 18, 2015 by Patrick Leave a Comment

We will be at Bible Baptist Church in Ashtabula this Sunday. We have been with them in their annual mission conference since Wednesday night. It has been a blessing. Pastor Emery has a heart for missions.

God is so good to us! We have been privileged to be in three missions conferences in the past week! God has dealt with me in each service. Please pray that God continues to raise our support.

Serving Together,

Patrick, Leslie, Lily, Piper, and Ivy Henry

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Argentina, Ashtabula, Deputation, Henry, Quick Update

Friday Quick Update: North Carolina in the Morning and the Night

August 28, 2015 by Patrick Leave a Comment

Where We Have Been:  We were in Baton Rouge, LA on Wednesday night. Pastor Buchanan and the church were very kind to us. I was able to present and preach. I had several of the church tell me that God worked in their hearts. To God be the glory.

Where We Are Going:  We will be in Kings Mountain, NC this Sunday morning and in Sylva, NC this Sunday evening. I very much enjoy what God is leading us to do. Sharing our hearts with fellow believers is something we feel very blessed to do.

 

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